today topic yg takdala kata hangat, but its been a while now. nak kata penting tak juga, but worth to get the attention to
ok its about tengok phone orang. atau pinjam. tak salah pinjam but when you start to godek2 phone org without the owner's consent or permission, then where the problem starts.
kalau orang bagi pinjam phone tu, there are things that you do not look.
gallery, whatsapp, wechat, messages, fb messenger, telegram.
its private okay!
bukan pasal rahsia curang ke apa.. benda ni private kot..
bukan masalah tak buat salah tak takut, ke apa, tapi benda tu sgt private.
you dont expect ttbe org yg xbrapa rapat sgt masuk rumah, masuk bilik, selongkar apa yg ada dalam laci/almari... takda simpan benda salah pun, tapi kita tak suka, betul tak?
ok, lets say you, yourself, bagi ke kalau aku nak belek2 benda tu dlm fon korang? i bet no.
because kan ada benda yg kita share kt org2 tertentu sahaja. kita ckp dgn org2 tertentu. mslah di pejabat, masalah family, masalah kwn baik, masalah kewangan. semua tu conversation yg private. this kind of thing bukan setakat melibatkan kita, tetapi orang2 disekeliling kita
gambar pun kalau ada gmbar xsempurna aurat keluarga kita, takkan nak bagi orang tengok kot
even if you are married, its still no!
ok let me get an an example.
kawan kita ada msalah peribadi dia. dia cerita kat kita via whatsapp dan strongly told you not to tell anybody. and its your responsible to keep it that way. kalau tersebar jadi aib kot. takkan la every conversation nak kena delete. ada org bukan jenis mcmtu. mmg patut la dia kena delete just in case, tapi dia taknak delete pun takpa. yang hngpa p masuk converstation tu cari kt situ buat apa bangang?!
jadi even your wife/husband tak boleh tahu kalau si tuan punya badan tak kasi tahu. not everything you can share you know.
galeri pulak macam yg sebut tadi kalau ada tak sempurna aurat. ada ke yg kata kalau tak sempurna aurat tak payah la tgkp gambar. hello, ni bukan utk sebar ok ni utk simpan2 sendiri je buat kenangan. contoh la kita suka tgkp gmbar family kit kt rumah bila balik sekali sekala. tgkp gmbar mak kita tgh masak, tgkp gmbar adik kita tgh tido dlm posisi yg melucukan, tgkp gmbar minum petang ramai2 kt depan tv. sesetangah org suka buat mcmtu. korg xbuat tu lantak la, bukan org sama mcm life korang.
dan kadang2 ada whatsapp pulak gambar lama oleh kawan2. xkira la msa tu kdg2 tgh dok tido dlm bilik bujang dgn boxer je ke ape ke...
ok aku tahu mmg betul ada bnyk kes curang ni, but still i still dont think you have the right to selongkar phone orang. unless betul2 nak siasat sbb ada kemusykilan yg tinggi...
bottomline is, bila guna phone orang, jangan tengok benda2 private tu.
fikir2 kan la... tolong jangan fikir satu bab. tolong fikir dari banyak perspektif. macamana kita nak maju kalau tak berfikiran jauh, berfikiran cetek, short term dan view yg sempit. please, ok?
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