Rant : Norm dan maruah. Tahan maki

Assalammualaikum and hello all

for today i will be just ranting  about my opinion and thoughts regarding the situation where one of the most important traits to have today is tahan maki.
Nowadays is tough, tahan maki is a must if you want to excel in your life. Sebelum kita jadi bos, kita jadi kuli, so kena la tahan maki dari bos. nak kerja sendiri, freelance, kena macam2 karenah dgn customer & client, kadang2 diorg maki, either sbb salah ktia or tak, ada spesis yg mmg suka maki pantang ada sikit pun tak kena

Paling selalu sekali if you are in service. customer service. jadi waiter or cashier, jaga kaunter. etc. Yang berdepan dgn orang ramai. Always stumbled upon rude people, stupid people,  mannerless and impatient people. At times its just annoying, other times it resulted in quite the fuss. I mean semua org tahun in service, where you deal with people directly, The public, the customer, there will be lots of perangai that you can stumble upon mostly is bad and annoying. It is expected.

kalau takut dilambung ombak jangan berumah di tepi pantai.

It is to be expected, tapi that does not give you the right to maki that person. Mana maruah dia sbg manusia, apa semua pekerja2 ni mmg layak di maki je sb dia pekerja? come on.

nanti org akan cakap "dah mmg macmtu, tak tahan, takyah kerja." "semua org pun kena macamtu." t. "aku dulu pun kerja bawah2 kena macmatu, terima je lah"
i mean are we okay with this. its kinda we condone that kind of behaviour. kalau macmatu takda sapa la keja2 bawah2 ni. tapi sbb terpaksa. pastu bila dah takda org nak kerja, trpksa gajikan pekerja asing. Korang jugak marah kalau amek pekerja asing.
Also its not fair treat other badly just because you have been treated badly before. Balas balik kt orang lain? duh. gila. zalim.

aku pun selalu gak kena very harsh words from my lecturer. and because of that i wont be doing that to other people. i think its not fair la kita lepaskan frustration and balas balik dekat orang lain, jsut because dulu aku kena. But i will if i have to la, kalau dah melampau sgt sbb biasalah, bagi muka sikit mula la naik lemak, baik sikit mula la kena pijak, tak di respect.
But i will try not to use very harsh methods until its necessary after all efforts is futile.
Aku ni nak kata hati tisu tu tak la, sbb kalau tak kental, tak berjaya aku habis archtiecture sampai master, but in a way aku ni quite sensitive la jugak. mudah tersentuh gitu.
Almost all the time i shrugged it off, but at one point i will burst out..

Pasal maki ni bagi tambah kekentalan kita utk hadapai cabaran ni aku setuju la gak. Because that what made me who i am today. and almost everybody feels the same. But do we really need that? zaman berubah. Method juga berubah. Dulu kat sekolah belajar pakai buku sifir tapi sekarang calculator. We always bragged to new generations how bad it was then and the kids nowadays have it easy. But we loathe when the adults said the same things to us. Because our thougts are; things change. Dulu lain sekarang lain. So thats what happen between every generation.
Dulu cikgu garang nak mati, student takut dan respect. tapi sekarang cikgu dah tak touch budak, budak2 sekarang kuarang ajar. Bukan sbb cikgu je, tapi mak bapak jugak. Ni satu juga masalah. SO budak2 ni dah kena ajar lembut2, tetiba kt sek menengah or universiti terus kita nak layan keras2 mcm 10-15 tahun dulu zaman kita dulu? i dont think it work. it backfires. Bnyk dha kes2 diorg mmberontak. rebel. So ada pendekatan yg lebih baik. Cemana nak tackle this new generation effectively? that is our job to find out. Method dulu tak sama mcm sekarang. The way of life, the environemnt, the way there are raised, treated is different. bagai langit dgn bumi. They face new challenges yg kita tak faham pun.

So i hope everybody understand. Takyah la nak maki2. tak kira dia pekerja kau atau orang yg bekerja di tempat lain.  the phrase "customer is always right" tak semestinya boleh pakai becasue there are many idiots out there.

Let us live the way of life what is stress free and not letting our frustration to other people. Tak perlu nak maki2, nak downgrade. We are all just a humble human being, servants to the Almighty. God. Allah. be humble, be good to others. What you give you get back. What goes around comes around. Treat others as you want to be treated. Kita permudahkan urusan orang, in Sha Allah urusana kita Allah mudahkan.

peace yo. Cheers.

Be positive. tak boleh? keluh kisah?

You know, we are only human.

But in Islam, we are thought to only leave it to Allah. Ada hikmah disebalik kejadian. Pasti. Rahmat Allah tu besar. Ilmu Allah itu luas. Allah maha mengetahui.
jgn mengadu pada manusia, mengadu pada Allah. redha dan syukur, in Shaa Allah diluaskan rahmatnya, rezeki dan kelapangan.

Surrender to Allah. Have faith in Allah.that is what islamic teaching.
But you know, we are only human. Takkanlah nak rasa mengadu dan keluh sikit pun tak boleh. Sebab kita lemah. kita bukan malaikat, bukan nabi. its totally normal.
For people who can always thinks positive is the strongest in terms of faith. Org kuat iman.

Aku sgt2 tak suka bila org kata ada la hikmahnya. Memang betul tapi berat mata memandang berat lagi bahu memikul. Kdg2 org yg ditimpa musibah tu jadi lagi menyampah bila org sebut kt dia tu. kalau semua pun yg lawat dia sebut mcmtu mmg silap haribulan dia hempas pintu takmaw jumpak sapa2.. Sbb dia bukan tak taw hal tu, tapi tu la igt senang.

Soal hati ni bukan senang. bila kita kena game dgn kwn, kena tipu dgn org, org khianati amanah dan kepercayaan yg kita berikan. it hurts okay.

This is one good example. Sometimes you just need to listen.
Most people will felt relieved when they express and luahkan their thoughts and feelings.
Sometimes org yg iman kuat or alim2 ni kdg2 susah sikit nak faham org. susah skit nak bagi nasihat. tak habis2 dgn be positive, suruh ibadah lebih lagi etc. tu semua org pun tahu. Kena cari lagi cara yg lebih baik utk tackle manusia. kena study lebih dlm lg psl falsafah dan psychology.

Of course dalam islam mmg kita kena lihat positif saja. tapi tu la, org yg betul2 kuat iman boleh la ma camtu. kalau kita kena uji bertubi2 igt senang ke nak positif, igt senang nak tabah bila kita lihat keliling org senang belaka. Of course we have to check and reflect back on all our actions, because it might be kifarah.
But be realistic, org nak mengeluh sikit pun tak boleh. Its not easy you know. of course the saying of

"Allah takkan uji hambanya melainkan apa yang dia boleh tanggung dan lalui"

dan

"Setiap kesusahan pasti akan ada kesenangan"

memang betul, sbg org islam kena kena berpegang kuat terhadap ni. But we are only human. hamba yg lemah.

tapi satu ja nak sebut, jangan sampai terbit di mulut cakap2 yg mengeluh dgn nasib terlalu kerap. Mungkin nnt rezeki dan keberkatan susah nak datang. sikit2 takpa. sekejap2 takpa. kalau selalu nnt susah.

For me i always keep postive. saying : Allah ada. Allah nampak dan tahu apa aku buat, apa isi hati aku, Allah akan balas setimpal, cepat atau lambat, dalam bentuk apa pun.
Alhamdulillah it works for me. Thats why sometimes org akan kata kat aku ni terlalu baik.
buat baik Allah balas dgn baik, Allah dah janji.

so for you all try find something as your motivation and your drive to keep positive and do the right thing. We need everybody to do the right thing, not just whats easy or follow the norm.

Kenduri Kazen. Anak sedara.

Assalammualaikum all
holaa

kali ni nak citer kat korang about wedding. My cousin's wedding. or to be more precise, is anak sedara. Yes its my nephew. He is same age as me. His mom is my cousin. She's 50+ already.
Well, that happen when you have a very big family(11 sibling) and your mother is bongsu(last).

So anak sedara aku ni dia kawin kt dewan Utropolis, Shah Alam ahad haritu (7okt). We depart for KL saturday morning, at 10.20 am. Expected to arrive in KL dlm pkul 2.20, plan nak lunch kat IKEA, sbb nak shopping sket kt sana. Tapi kitorg singgah R&R sg Perak. awal lagi, tapi sbb ziyad nak makan katanya. Alang2 tu mkn je la terus senang. Then masuk je highway dah jamm. Kt area sebelom terowong tu ada eksiden. The burnt lorry with 5 death. At the time we dont know yet. journey yg patut amek masa 20 mins jadi nearly an hour. So because of that we arrive much later than expected. At 4 sumthing i think. We went to our booked Homestay at Utropolis. Literally the same place of the wedding venue. Will explain that in a bit.

Sebelum sampai ada issue dgn Homestay. Technical problem dgn org yg manage tu. Dia pening, phone hilang, contact hilang data hilang, homestay bnyk, org nak masuk pun bnyk. Lepas tunggu lama, argue, bincang, then finally dpt gak solve. Kitorg pun naik la atas. Utropolis ni Mixed Development. Commercial podium kat bawah, Tower kat atas(housing). Nice tempat dia ada pool lagi. You can just google more about this building. Im just going to to show particularly the unit.

 Nah amek kau gambar render. Baru akitekce sket.

Tu homestay yg kami masuk. Dah petang, mmg tak jadi la p IKEA. kami turun ke dewan kt bawah tu utk preparation. Oh ya, commercial kat bawah tu mcm xde pe sgt.. ada a few cafe, mynews and a few fast food dan Mydin. Yg lain mcm takda apa sgt. sbb baru lagi tmpat tu. so bnyk kedai2 yg kosong. nak kata mall, mcm tak jugak. tapi 2 tingkat la. So the event hall is in first floor. Everything looked nice. Dah siap xde la bnyk sgt bnda nak buat sbb semua dlm pakej. Sebelum naik ke homestay, singgah mkn kat texas chicken. malas nak keluar2.

Esok tu nak breakfast, malas nak keluar naik kereta cari2. sbb area tu kawasan perindustrian. Kilang je bnyk. tah kenapa tiba2 boleh ada housing sesat. Sebelah dia Kolej swasta (KDU). Kt bawah tu ada cafe  & fast food je. smua tak bukak lagi. Memula igt nak mkn subway katanya buka kul 8 tp weekday je. harini hari ahad so xde la. Ada satu kedai bun ni buka. ada bun, nasi lemak bungkus pun ada, nak beli tapi takut la pulak sbb kedai cina. masa tu ngam2 kul 8.
then suddenlly Mydin buka. Dalam tu ada makanan. Nasi lemak, bihun, koayteow, nasi goreng, ayam goreng, karipap, popcorn chicken etc. makanan biasa mydin. So kami pun beli la.

Kul 11.45 kami turun ke dewan. Ramai dah ada. Mcm biasa aku jadi camera man. Kebetulan mmg diorg tak hire photographer. Its so fortunate that i bring my camera. Becasue i thought of not bringing it. Just made the last minute decision like 15 mins before head out. Dewan dia cantik. boleh seat around 400 pax at one time. Pakej lengkap sekali kerusi meja, makanan, deco, pelamin etc. sapa2 nak boleh la carik. I heard this is their second time handling event. they are very new. Its relatively cheap becasue of promotion. or so i heard. So cepat2 la kalau nak baut majlis contact and try consult. makan sedap, servis ok, tempat sejuk seleasa, parking plenty.

 Ada life performance. laki kanan tu anak sedara jugak. (kazen pengantin)

Ni paling tricky. Nasib baik bwk camera. kalau pkai fon mmg taknampak. jadi gelap(silhoutte) sbb belakang cerah sgt

The event lasted untill 5pm.. mmg ramai org datang. maklumlah anak sulung. Because of duty, i couldnt even get a shot with the pengantin. Hai, nasib. Dalam gambar pun tak bnyk sgt.
Malam tu dah penat, malas nak keluar. Just take away subway. dinner awal, tido awal
Tomorrow morning nak breakfast kena keluar. tapi takyah g jauh sgt la ada jugak shophouse yg still in the vicinity. G kedai mamak. Balik tu trus siap2 utk checkout awal. Nak g IKEA. only been to IKEA like what 3-4 times? and Its been like forever since i last went to IKEA. last time was like in 2011? oh the recent on only to eat, so thats doesnt count.

Yeah IKEA's food!

Lepas makan dlm kul 2 kitorg pun balik la... thats the end of our kenduri KL trip.
Balik pun busy pulak nak edit gambar masa majlis haritu.
ok all untill next time..
cheers.

Paskal The Movie

Assalammualaikum all
holaaa
entry kali ni nak review movie yg aku baru je tgk tadi
Balik2 trus on the pc try to write this because it soo damn cool. Terbaik bak hang!

Aku ni bukan jenis tgk cita melayu. apa2 jenis pun mmg aku tak layan punya, tambah2 yg sekarang ni.. balik2 cerita sama. Cerita lawak bodo, cerita hantu, cerita cintan cintun, cerita rempit, cerita gengster.... Tapi kali ni punya cerita memang best betul. dia mmg betul2 masuk elemen teknikal.

Dalam beratus cerita wayang yg aku tgk, ada 3 je cerita malaysia yg aku tgk wayang. Puteri Gunung Ledang, Geng:Pengembaraan Bermula, dan Paskal:The Movie.
But for this movie, Paskal, its a whole different level.
Katanya cerita ni inspirasi drpt on true story, tapi dah bnyk la di-alter.
Nak cerita bnyk pun tak leh, spoiler la kan..

Cerita dia straight forward, tak berat, semua boleh layan, tak laju, tak slow, mudah faham, cuma sapa yg tak biasa dgn terminology military or bahasa radio probably mngkin ada la few things yg tak faham. Tapi tu yg best tu. We wanted to see the technicalities and almost real life operation on the subject matter. Which filem melayu notoriously known to touch very shallow, only on the surface of real and technical stuff on topics yg diorg bawak. contoh pasal medical, pasal arhitect, building etc. For this movie mmg bnyk diorg expose all that. memang mcm filem holywood. Scene2 dlm movie tu ada suspence, action, sedih/touching, a bit of humor. Org yg lawak tu org utara. Pelik la, selalunya pak lawak dlm setiap cerita tu mesti org utara. takde org lain ke.. kot la ada org kecek kelate ke, ganu ke.. or org nogori pun best jugak. haha...
Dalam cerita ni mmg dia selitkan semangat kebangsaan, patriotisma secara tak langsung. Bnyk pelakon2 tambahan tu dari pelbagai kaum. Cina, india.. Even dlm team Paskal tu sendiri pun bnyk terdiri daripada bukan melayu.
Overall its nicely done. im super impressed. tahniah diucapkan kpd direktor, pelakon, dan kru.

Aku tak faham kenapa tak ada data ni dlm IMDB. Sedangkan KL gangster, polis evo abang long fadhil pun ada dalam tu. just you know, KL gangster rating IMDB tak sampai 6, Polis Evo, KL Special Force, Abang Long Fadhil 2, Tombiruo, semua dalam range 7.2 - 7.4. tinggi jugak kan. Ola Bola plg tinggi 7.8. semua tu aku belum tgk lagi so i cant really say that much. Tapi kalau abg long fadil 2 dh dpt 7.4 takkan Paskal tak boleh dpt 8.0 kan.....
Kalau aku, aku nak bagi rating 8.5. hahahaaa....

Alang2 dah cerita pasal Paskal ni meh la aku cerita sikit psal pasukan2 elit kt malaysia ni sbb ramai yg tak tahu. Yang tahu tu, tahulah...


Paskal : Komando Tentera Laut
pasukan elit yg pakar dalam operasi di laut

Paskau : Komando Tentera Udara
pasukan elit yg pakar dalam operasi di laut, dan udara(hijacked plane, behind enemy lines or ground zero)

GGK ) : Komando Tentera darat.
(Gerup Gerak Khas/Gerak Gempur Komando) pasukan elit yang pakar dalam pertempuran dalam hutan

VAT69  : Komando Polis (Hutan)
(Very Able Trooper) dulu dikenali sbg Polis Hutan yg lawan komunis. pasukan elit yang pakar dalam pertempuran dalam hutan utk ancaman dlm negara.

UTK  : Komando Polis (Bandar)
(Unit Tindakan Khas) mcm SWAT. Pasukan elit pakar dalam close quarter battle (CQB)/urban setting. terrorist and hostage situation yg berlaku dlm negara.


untuk semua pasukan ni, skill dan kehebatan diorg ni sama je. memang kuat, memang hebat. unexceptional individual skill. cumanya skop tugasan dan kepakaran dan pengalaman yg lebih utk menghadapi environment masing2. so there you have it

Sekali lagi aku seru rakan2 semua utk support industri perfileman negara kita, pi la tengok paskal ni. bukan cita2 ngarut mcm cinta2, lawak bodoh, rempit, cita hantu tu...